My name is Jess. Do not go gentle.


I really need to realise that focusing on the ‘but if this happened’ and ‘I should have done this’ of life is not going to in anyway change the here and now

(via hurricanesanddrizzle)






I don’t know whether to be excited about the comment that the girl said or the one under lol

If owning a gun and knowing how to use it worked, the military would be the safest place for a woman. It’s not.

If women covering up their bodies worked, Afghanistan would have a lower rate of sexual assault than Polynesia. It doesn’t.

If not drinking alcohol worked, children would not be raped. They are.

If your advice to a woman to avoid rape is to be the most modestly dressed, soberest and first to go home, you may as well add “so the rapist will choose someone else”.

If your response to hearing a woman has been raped is “she didn’t have to go to that bar/nightclub/party” you are saying that you want bars, nightclubs and parties to have no women in them. Unless you want the women to show up, but wear kaftans and drink orange juice. Good luck selling either of those options to your friends.

A Short Post on Rape Prevention (via yawntario)

(via iangallegher)


I’m one of those girls who wants someone to love them but pushes away anyone who cares.

(via tisthisismylife)

Me on my wedding day: you still like me right

Just give it to me straight doc